ジャッジ／パーシーバー・チャレンジ
Of all the challenges out there in the world of people with different personalities trying to get along with one another, the Judger/Perceiver challenges dimension is not the most difficult to navigate. There is a general awareness in the mainstream that people differ in terms of how they アプローチ計画 と 意思決定このような基本的な違いをある程度理解した上で。しかし、性格タイプという特殊な側面が、私たちの人間関係の質を日々少しずつ削いでいく傾向がある。
私たちの見解では、それは多くの人にとって本当に明白な問題ではなく、むしろ次のようなものだ。 千人斬り... 些細なことの積み重ねが長い時間をかけて積み重なり、家庭でも職場でも、人間関係を重大な形で蝕んでいくのだ。 ここでは、物事を判断する側と認識する側の両方の簡単な特徴、一般的な課題、そしてこの違いをより平和的に乗り越えるための提案を紹介する。
A note on terminology… “Judging” or “Judger” does not imply that the person is judgmental and neither does “Perceiving” or “Perceiver” imply someone is perceptive. The field of personality type simply uses these terms.
審査員
一般的に、時間を大切にし、整理整頓を好む。 審査 like to have a plan and then stick to it. They typically feel discomfort or unease when things are not planned out, which generates energy for them to seek closure and put a plan in place. Once secured with a plan, Judgers tend to relax a bit. In taking on assignments, they generally want to break the work into even segments, and tackle those in a sequence which ends up leaving them mostly finished a safe distance from the deadline.
Granted, in these hectic modern times very few things go according to plan. This means that many Judgers experience higher levels of stress because they’re not provided with the opportunity to operate in their preferred style for much of the time. When plans change, Judgers usually go through a brief mourning period… before re-grouping to put a new plan in place. もしあなたやあなたの知り合いが、何ヶ月も何ヶ月も前から旅行を予約していたり、出発の何日も前から荷物をまとめていたりするなら、それはどちらもジャッジャーの嗜好を知る良い手がかりとなる。
知覚者
Unlike their Judging friends, Perceivers typically have a relaxed and casual relationship with time and making plans. They tend to feel unease and heartburn when required to make a choice, as they prefer to leave their options open. Because Perceivers are not as focused on the planning piece, when those plans change they tend to move on without too much fuss or ruffled feathers.
On the other end of the Judger/Perceiver challenges, Perceivers often reflect on the missed opportunities that their natural desire to put off decision making and planning can produce. They often turn to the Judgers in their life to help them in these areas. もしあなた自身や他の人が、お店であまりに多くの選択肢に圧倒されたり、予定を立てずに今度の週末に何が起こるかを見るのが好きだったり、一般的に「流れに身を任せる」ことが簡単だったりするなら、それらは自然な「知覚」スタイルの良い証拠である。
期限が目前に迫り、パーシーバーがアドレナリンを爆発させる。 必要 ingredient for them to produce their finest work. In other words, they don’t want to risk missing the deadline; they just need to feel the sense of アージャンシー a deadline generates to kick into gear and get things done.
ジャッジャー／パーシーバーの課題トップ5
1.R」ワードは使わない
When Judgers start to feel a bit stressed, they tend to show it in their behavior. There might be a knotted brow, an intensity to how they talk, and it may seem like they are struggling to remain patient and calm. The natural reaction among Perceivers is to polarize from this set of behaviors and to try and amp up their calm, relaxed demeanor. Judger/Perceiver challenges arise when the perceivers find themselves tempted to offer stress management advice along the lines of “Hey, you need to relax!” or “Dude, you need to chill out.” Unfortunately, this does ない 期待される効果を生み出す。 詳細はこちら "R "ワード（"リラックス"）やそれに類する言葉を使う代替案について...
2.重要な期限前後の緊急性
知覚者は、物事が激しくなったときに冷静さを保つことに誇りを持っている。そのため、ジャッジャーの同僚に間違った印象を与えてしまうことがある。 強度 そのような状況にありながら、必要な行動を取ろうとしない。 詳細はこちら このダイナミズムとその解決策について。
3.金曜日までにお届けします
を人々がどのように定義しているかを知るのは楽しいことだ。 同じ words differently based on their personality type. When Judgers commit to getting you something “by Friday,” it often means something entirely different than when a Perceiver uses the exact same words. The result is that another small “cut” occurs in the fabric of the relationship and underlying trust. 詳細はこちら これをナビゲートする最善の方法について。
4.仕事と遊びを混在させる（あるいは混在させない）
パーシーバーは通常、仕事と遊びを行ったり来たりさせることで活力を得ますが、ジャッジャーはこの2つを非常に別々にする傾向があります。これもまた、生まれつきの相違が大きな信頼問題を引き起こし、人間関係の質を低下させ、両者が効果的に協力し合う能力を低下させる可能性があるところです。 詳細はこちら.
5.今から時の終わりまで
Without a deadline, Judgers may be surprised to learn that Perceivers believe they can complete a request anytime between the moment you ask and the end of time itself. Without agreeing to a timeline or deadline, this is a recipe for disappointment and chagrin. 詳細はこちら.
他の記事で紹介されている具体的なテクニックは別として、このダイナミズムについて心に留めておくべき包括的なことは、自分と異なる相手は 意図的に trying to annoy you. These basic differences are hardwired, and the person is simply seeking to live their life the way they prefer. They are not necessarily aware of the frustrations or annoyance it may bring for you.
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